What do you think about cohabitation?

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Ja sa bong

Ja sa bong

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Do you think couples should live together before getting married? In my opinion, I think it's very important because you will have the opportunity to know whom you're going to be married to better.

Many people know how to hide their bad characters but when they live with their partners, it will be hard to do so.

Are you for or against cohabitation?
 
uptrendfinancialsignal said:
Some religions do not support cohabitation but it has some advantages. It allows the couples to understand themselves in a deeper way and that can help their relationship in a lot of ways.
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No matter how long you cohabit with your partner, anybody that want to pretend about their character will do that. Cohabitation might favour some people while it doesn't favour some too even after staying together.
 
Alicia said:
No matter how long you cohabit with your partner, anybody that want to pretend about their character will do that. Cohabitation might favour some people while it doesn't favour some too even after staying together.
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People can pretend, but not for long. A dirty person, for instance, will show it during cohabiting as they will struggle to even wash their pants or boxers. The signs will always be there to see.
 
Ja sa bong said:
Do you think couples should live together before getting married? In my opinion, I think it's very important because you will have the opportunity to know whom you're going to be married to better.

Many people know how to hide their bad characters but when they live with their partners, it will be hard to do so.

Are you for or against cohabitation?
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I believe so. Living together is a big part of getting to know each other before marriage. You don’t want to walk into a lifelong commitment blindly. It’s how you become familiar with each other’s habits, personalities, and ways of living.

I don’t think it’s ever a good idea to get married without truly knowing your partner, and living together gives you that insight. Good chemistry, a strong bond, and deep connection are all essential in any relationship. If you don’t have that, the relationship won’t last, marriage or not.


To me, cohabitation is just part of the relationship process, whether it’s long distance at first or not. I’m not against it in any way. In fact, I fully support it.
 
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cpvr said:
I believe so. Living together is a big part of getting to know each other before marriage. You don’t want to walk into a lifelong commitment blindly. It’s how you become familiar with each other’s habits, personalities, and ways of living.

I don’t think it’s ever a good idea to get married without truly knowing your partner, and living together gives you that insight. Good chemistry, a strong bond, and deep connection are all essential in any relationship. If you don’t have that, the relationship won’t last, marriage or not.


To me, cohabitation is just part of the relationship process, whether it’s long distance at first or not. I’m not against it in any way. In fact, I fully support it.
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A lot of marriages would have been saved from crashing if the partners cohabitated for a while before deciding they are perfect fit to get married. It's why when they rush things too fast it ends badly.
 
Living together changes our lifestyles quite a lot. I see it as taking a practical step toward marriage and it also portrays commitment as well.
 
Henrywrites said:
People can pretend, but not for long. A dirty person, for instance, will show it during cohabiting as they will struggle to even wash their pants or boxers. The signs will always be there to see.
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I can predict that one even if you ain't cohabiting with me and yes that's true, dirty people don't hide it so long. The characters might be how the person eat, sleep or even talk mostly.
 
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