Are you an emotional person?

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Don't get me wrong, being emotional can be a nice feeling. I mean, we all have things or situations that can change our moods, whether negatively or positively. However, being too emotional can become an issue for some people. Are you the type that is always too emotional?
 
They said women are too emotional in everything that happens to them but my case was different. I don't show emotions while happy, sad or when any thing happened to me.

I tend to manage my emotions very well but the consequences is that it breaks me because I can't show how I am feeling and people don't used to understand it.
 
I can actually be a very emotional person but I know that most people don't show you pity when you are in that state but rather they might start making mockery of you. This reason why I try as much as possible to hide whatever I'm going through most of the time.
 
I'm a very emotional person. I don't like my emotions being played with and I don't play with another person's emotion because I know how it feels to mess with someone's emotions.
 
I'm extremely emotional. In fact, I'm an Empath, and can read people very easily. I pick up on body ques, micro expressions, and other behavioral stuff. I can feel what others are feeling. Very interesting....
 
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Alicia said:
They said women are too emotional in everything that happens to them but my case was different. I don't show emotions while happy, sad or when any thing happened to me.

I tend to manage my emotions very well but the consequences is that it breaks me because I can't show how I am feeling and people don't used to understand it.
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There are women just like you who find it difficult to express emotions. I don't see that as a big deal as long as long as you are able to keep your actions in checks.
 
Henrywrites said:
There are women just like you who find it difficult to express emotions. I don't see that as a big deal as long as long as you are able to keep your actions in checks.
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The only time I blame ladies about how they behave towards their emotion is that they will fail to express their emotions and still expect you to know what they feel and react to them based on what they are feeling with them when they never told you.
 
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There are women just like you who find it difficult to express emotions. I don't see that as a big deal as long as long as you are able to keep your actions in checks.
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Men don't want women that doesn't show their feelings. I have read about it and I have seen it happen several times.

They tend to tell you to cry when you are happy or to show that all emotions when you are feeling sad and that's when they make use of the roles as a man and lend their shoulders for you😆.
 
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I'm extremely emotional. In fact, I'm an Empath, and can read people very easily. I pick up on body ques, micro expressions, and other behavioral stuff. I can feel what others are feeling. Very interesting....
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I'm not so good with reading and understanding body language but I'm giving it so much attention now because it's going to help me know how to handle some people.
 
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Men don't want women that doesn't show their feelings. I have read about it and I have seen it happen several times.

They tend to tell you to cry when you are happy or to show that all emotions when you are feeling sad and that's when they make use of the roles as a man and lend their shoulders for you😆.
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My biggest turn off with woman is manipulation. I cringe so much at it that it makes me hate on any woman I find doing that to a man or even just their friends.
 
Alicia said:
Men don't want women that doesn't show their feelings. I have read about it and I have seen it happen several times.

They tend to tell you to cry when you are happy or to show that all emotions when you are feeling sad and that's when they make use of the roles as a man and lend their shoulders for you😆.
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I like it when my woman acts cool and not being dramatic with emotions flying up and down. Those are the type of attitudes that can get me feeling irritated and I hate that so much for me.
 
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I like it when my woman acts cool and not being dramatic with emotions flying up and down. Those are the type of attitudes that can get me feeling irritated and I hate that so much for me.
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Dealing with a woman who is dramatic all the time is something that is always going to be emotional draining for you and you will even find it very challenging to spend time with her.
 
It depends on the environment. Well, in the last case the environment is why I wanted to leave. I don't tolerate drama, unless it's with my wife and that only to some degree.
 
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It depends on the environment. Well, in the last case the environment is why I wanted to leave. I don't tolerate drama, unless it's with my wife and that only to some degree.
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Drama is not good for someone's good mental health. I try as much as possible to avoid being in it. It's such a shame some people can't stop being dramatic.
 
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I like it when my woman acts cool and not being dramatic with emotions flying up and down. Those are the type of attitudes that can get me feeling irritated and I hate that so much for me.
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I am a woman and it's good for women to show their emotions the way it comes. If you said that you prefer the cool headed woman, you won't always know what's in her heart.

It's a very uncomfortable to me that I can't show my emotions always and it's really draining. Why should someone be acting cool all the time but in the heart, many things are running there.

Heatman said:
My biggest turn off with woman is manipulation. I cringe so much at it that it makes me hate on any woman I find doing that to a man or even just their friends.
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Anybody can be manipulative both male or female. Men can be manipulative when they didn't get what they want and the same goes to women too.

You can tell me what I did to you plainly than trying to manipulate me and guys have done it several times to me so I know it's not a gender something.
 
Alicia said:
I am a woman and it's good for women to show their emotions the way it comes. If you said that you prefer the cool headed woman, you won't always know what's in her heart.

It's a very uncomfortable to me that I can't show my emotions always and it's really draining. Why should someone be acting cool all the time but in the heart, many things are running there.


Anybody can be manipulative both male or female. Men can be manipulative when they didn't get what they want and the same goes to women too.

You can tell me what I did to you plainly than trying to manipulate me and guys have done it several times to me so I know it's not a gender something.
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Ladies are more built to be very manipulative. Even my mother was manipulative but I give her that pass, she's my mother. She can do whatever she wants and get away with it.
 
Its really interesting reading this thread.

I try not to show emotion, I have been told I can be very non emotive, but somethings will make me emotive, like everyone. I guess from years of not feeling anything.

I work in a career where it is very female dominated (I am male). Females can be very manipulative, but so can men. I think showing emotion can be a very good thing, especially in my career. I now work with a male supervisor who is the most manipulative person I have worked for, I can tell you there is a huge difference between the gender/ sexes in most in showing emotion.
 
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I agreed with you. But you know that there's some guys that are more manipulative than ladies? Ladies can be manipulative to get what they want and it has been working for us.
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It is true that some men can be manipulative but it is more common with ladies. I just want a video online few hours ago where a guy proposed to a lady in public but she rejected his proposal. Why would you be interested in dating someone you are not willing to get married to?

The guy reacted and collected the iPhone 14 Pro Max and the wig he bought for at that spot and I'm actually in support of the guy because you can't be willing to date someone for his material things but you will not be interested in getting married to the person.
 
Heatman said:
It is true that some men can be manipulative but it is more common with ladies. I just want a video online few hours ago where a guy proposed to a lady in public but she rejected his proposal. Why would you be interested in dating someone you are not willing to get married to?

The guy reacted and collected the iPhone 14 Pro Max and the wig he bought for at that spot and I'm actually in support of the guy because you can't be willing to date someone for his material things but you will not be interested in getting married to the person.
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I get your point very well. Women can be more manipulative. In this story you shared now, I can't say anything because I have always warn guys to stop disgracing themselves in the public because my gender can do anything they want and they are unapologetic about it. It isn't the first, second or third time that guys are been disgraced outside.
 
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