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Life is not a bed of roses, but just like you said, you've got to change a lot about what you do in terms of making life decisions.
Yes... When parents pamper their children a bit too much, it's kinda hard for the kids to become independent and they struggle quite a bit as an adult ;_;
 
I would never go against my values in an attempt to acquiring some material wealth or worldly success. I think staying true to oneself is the key to happiness and fulfillment. No matter what, I will never accept money on the condition of signing up for something that will imprisoned me.
 
I will never be with someone who doesn't love me deeply. I will see the signs and know that you are ready to spend the rest of your life with me before I can let you come close to me.

To be with someone who enjoys loving you is the best thing that can happen to anyone. It is never easy finding such emotional connection with someone, but it is very important to have it. As I have always said, life is simple when we are with people who genuinely love us.
 
For me, never would I choose my work over my mental health or take care of myself. It is seeing the effects of burnout on my friends and family that has truly highlighted the importance of balance to me.
 
One of the life choice I won't like to make is to be in the position of displeasure. When I am displeasing myself because of how I want people to see me is what I won't do. It's very frustrating and emotionally draining to be in that state.

Your happiness should come first, and trying to please everyone when you are not happy might come back to bite you in the future. It is important to have that at the back of your mind always.
 
Your happiness should come first, and trying to please everyone when you are not happy might come back to bite you in the future. It is important to have that at the back of your mind always.
I will also never try to fit into other people's expectations. Never ever because it will lead to burnout and dissatisfaction in the end. I try to stay true to myself and make choices that align with my values.
 
For me, never would I choose my work over my mental health or take care of myself. It is seeing the effects of burnout on my friends and family that has truly highlighted the importance of balance to me.

At the end of the day, your mental health isn’t optional, it’s everything. Work, pressure, expectations. none of it’s worth burning out over. You’ve only got one you, and taking care of yourself has to come first. Health really is wealth. Keep choosing you, always.


It’s vital we stay on top of it, because we don’t get to pick and choose how our health holds up when we ignore it.


What’s something you do now that helps you keep things balanced?
 
I will also never try to fit into other people's expectations. Never ever because it will lead to burnout and dissatisfaction in the end. I try to stay true to myself and make choices that align with my values.
Doing this to yourself will leave you permanently disappointed in life. Most people don't care about you or how you feel but themselves only.
 
Your happiness should come first, and trying to please everyone when you are not happy might come back to bite you in the future. It is important to have that at the back of your mind always.
That's what I am doing more often these days. I am building a wall that people won't penetrate easily on my life. It's a comeback for the pains I was caused all my life. I really want to be happy and happier in the future.
 
I've never done it in my life taking loans. There are so many loan apps I see their ads online whenever I'm doing something, I skip them without wasting time.
Exactly... If you have the amount, you should use it... If you don't... Then you should save up first.
However, I will have to get a house loan in the next 2 years.... And there is no way around it ;_;
I don't think I can ever save up enough to correctly purchase a house.... Paying in full
 
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